The number 4 and the number 9 are so different that you may find it hard to move past the first date with the other person. Even if you have a lot of chemistry, it’s not going to last because of how different you two are from each other. While opposites do attract, this is not a love match that is often made. The number 4 is focused on his or her own world and the number 9 is too humanitarian to think locally. The only way for this match to work is to understand just how different you two really are. Then you must have the will to make it work despite the differences. Neither of you will truly be able to change.
Number 9 must value the consistency that number 4 has to offer and number 4 must appreciate the intelligence that number 9 has to offer. Focus on what the two of you have in common and that is what will help the relationship to work. Each day is going to be a compromise, so you will have to really want the relationship to work, otherwise you will go back to being singles in the dating pool. The birth path numerology can help you to work on your differences. According to numerology a number 4 personality and a number 9 personality might not be very compatible.